Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Circle Days



I've been trying to figure out what our family will call the 6th and 7th of May every year, the anniversary of the days I took Rubin into our family and brought him home to his Papa and his brothers forever... 
A lot of families call the day they are united with their adopted child "adoption day," "forever family" or "gotcha day." 
neither of these feel quite right to me...

When I was in Korea, I wrote about how Rubin was the final member of our family, making our circle complete.
Fittingly, when I arrived home, I was met by these two, striking necklaces from dear friends. 
Indeed, our family circle is whole now. 
We've come full circle. Our circle is complete.

8 comments:

janiece said...

With the three kids--it would have been totally crazy to do a gotcha day for each. Since Chewie is our last (not my choice!), we've decided that the day he came home, April 3, will be our family day. Our family was whole on that day. I like the complete circle idea. Isn't it the truth--you feel complete. It's an indescribable feeling--but one I think most of us know.

JoJo said...

I love that necklace! So is it "circle day?"

Christine @ 12,450miles said...

Lovely necklaces and sentiments!

I second JoJo's question... are you going to have a "circle" name for those days?

emily said...

jojo and christine~ we'll call them our circle days.

dana said...

love it! sweet friends you have - the necklaces are lovely!!

Nicole said...

those are beautiful!

Janet said...

Lovely necklaces...lovely circles!

Rach@In His Hands said...

Awww, how special! I'm so glad you shared them with us.....beautiful!

Our Adoption Timeline

  • December 23, 2009- Adoption Finalized.
  • May 7th, 2009- Family circle complete in Madison.
  • May 6th, 2009- Mama's got Rubin in Seoul.
  • May 4th, 2009- meet Rubin
  • April 23rd, 2009- Visa Interview
  • April 22nd, 2009- TRAVEL CALL!!
  • April 14th, 2009- Packet 3
  • April 7th, 2009- NVC out
  • April 1st 2009 (no foolin')- I171 received
  • March 9th, 2009- I171H received
  • February 27th, 2009- progress report from SWS
  • February 24th, 2009- Fingerprinted at USIS
  • February 19, 2009-Rubin's legals arrive in state.
  • February 16, 2009- mailed referral acceptance.
  • February 12, 2009- received referral paperwork.
  • January 29, 2009- verbally accepted referral
  • January 27, 2009- received unofficial referral.
  • January 20, 2009- I600A received and filed with the Dept. of Homeland Security
  • January 16, 2009- submitted I600A
  • January 12, 2009- homestudy document complete.
  • January 12, 2009-received Foster Home Licensing
  • December 22, 2008- A.I.A.A. director approves application, establishes our file, and requests our homestudy documents from J.D.
  • December 5, 2008- submitted Foster Licensing application.
  • November 25, 2008- A.I.A.A. accepted official application.
  • November 15, 2008- submitted formal application to A.I.A.A.
  • November 13, 2008- final homestudy meeting.
  • November 12, 2008- autobiographies completed.
  • October 30, 2008- second homestudy meeting.
  • October 22, 2008- received formal application from A.I.A.A.
  • October 14, 2008- first homestudy meeting.
  • October 1, 2008- submitted pre-application to Americans for International Adoption and Aid
  • September 25, 2008- submitted application packet to Adoption Advocates, Inc.
  • September 18, 2008- first meeting with social worker (J.D.)
  • August 2008- decided to adopt

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