Friday, November 28, 2008

Beginnings, middles, and ends.

I am thankful.

For what has been.

And for what is to come.

For the man who stands beside me, and before me,

who always backs me up, and always holds me high.

For these boys, who fill our house with pure joy

and mischief

and brotherhood

(and dirty socks, and crumbs, and fingerprints)

Who fill my heart with tenderness,

vulnerability,

and an awe.

I've never known a love like the love I feel for you.

For our relationships; kinships and friendships.

For the fighting,

and then the understanding,

and forgiving.

For unexpected beginnings,

steadfast middles,

and lasting ends.

Even if we didn't have anything else,

even when it's hard,

(which it can be, every day)

we have everything.

We are, continually, blessed.

And I am so thankful.

8 comments:

Norbyah said...

What a beautiful post. Stated so well. I agree with you....we have so much to be thankful for. I am also thankful for you, my friend.

Anonymous said...

That is a beautiful poem. Happy Thanksgiving!

Christine @ 12,450miles said...

Oooo - this is wonderful! Love this.

janiece said...

Beautiful and you express what so many of us feel in such a wonderful way!

Becca said...

Beautiful Emily!
You have always been so good at capturing feelings in words. We do all have so much to be thankful for and appreciate :-)

Rach@In His Hands said...

Simply wonderful...thanks for sharing. So much to be thankful for!

Krista said...

So beautiful Emily. You really do (as we all do) so many wonderful things to be thankful for. And you word it all so perfectly.

Erin Beaver said...

Beautiful. I miss you! and Pumpkin Pie, too! (My secret word to post a comment is UNFUN. HUMMMM.)

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  • December 23, 2009- Adoption Finalized.
  • May 7th, 2009- Family circle complete in Madison.
  • May 6th, 2009- Mama's got Rubin in Seoul.
  • May 4th, 2009- meet Rubin
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  • January 12, 2009- homestudy document complete.
  • January 12, 2009-received Foster Home Licensing
  • December 22, 2008- A.I.A.A. director approves application, establishes our file, and requests our homestudy documents from J.D.
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