Sunday, February 22, 2009

Theo speaks

I was in Theo's bedroom tonight, drawing his shades and turning down his bed when I heard him calling for me from the threshold of his bathroom.  "Mama," he said, "I can't use Emmett's bathroom tonight!"  

I was a little curious as to what was happening, since he's never referred to his bathroom, the bathroom that he shares with his brother, as "Emmett's."

"Oh, yes you can!" I said. "This isn't Emmett's bathroom, it's Theo AND Emmett's!" 

He pulled me inside, and closed the door a bit, pointing to a ladybug on the ground.  "I can't go potty in here with him, Mama!"

And, so, quickly, I disposed of said ladybug, with my 3 year olds' eyes pasted on me as I worked. "Where did he come from?" Theo asked me.  I told him that I thought he had come in from the cold outside. 

I was corrected, as Theo informed me, "No, Mama, he came here from Africa."


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At Nanny and Grampy's house on Saturday night, we were talking about Rubin. Theo confirmed with his grandmother, "Rubin is in Korea, right?"  My mother-in-law and I were quick to agree with him when he said, "Well, where is Rubin's Mama?"  I told Theo that I am Rubin's mother, and he asked me in return, after a minute of silent contemplation, "Well, why?"


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We were eating dinner early last week with a photo of Rubin propped up on our kitchen table.  Theo surprised me by addressing Rubin directly, telling him, "We have Elefun, Rubin, and you can play it with us!" 

I love that he's anxious to share his favorite game with his youngest brother.  And, by the way it sounds like Rubin is growing, he'll probably be ready to play it when he comes home!!!


5 comments:

Shelley said...

Oh. Kids. Melt you every time!

Becca said...

These are such great snapshots into his thoughts and feelings...it is just so special to remember and cherish THEIR preparations for Rubin as well. Very special...

Anonymous said...

Love that you're keeping records of all of this. What an amazing time.

Rach@In His Hands said...

What a sweet, sweet boy!

Christine @ 12,450miles said...

How did I miss this?! So, so sweet!

Our Adoption Timeline

  • December 23, 2009- Adoption Finalized.
  • May 7th, 2009- Family circle complete in Madison.
  • May 6th, 2009- Mama's got Rubin in Seoul.
  • May 4th, 2009- meet Rubin
  • April 23rd, 2009- Visa Interview
  • April 22nd, 2009- TRAVEL CALL!!
  • April 14th, 2009- Packet 3
  • April 7th, 2009- NVC out
  • April 1st 2009 (no foolin')- I171 received
  • March 9th, 2009- I171H received
  • February 27th, 2009- progress report from SWS
  • February 24th, 2009- Fingerprinted at USIS
  • February 19, 2009-Rubin's legals arrive in state.
  • February 16, 2009- mailed referral acceptance.
  • February 12, 2009- received referral paperwork.
  • January 29, 2009- verbally accepted referral
  • January 27, 2009- received unofficial referral.
  • January 20, 2009- I600A received and filed with the Dept. of Homeland Security
  • January 16, 2009- submitted I600A
  • January 12, 2009- homestudy document complete.
  • January 12, 2009-received Foster Home Licensing
  • December 22, 2008- A.I.A.A. director approves application, establishes our file, and requests our homestudy documents from J.D.
  • December 5, 2008- submitted Foster Licensing application.
  • November 25, 2008- A.I.A.A. accepted official application.
  • November 15, 2008- submitted formal application to A.I.A.A.
  • November 13, 2008- final homestudy meeting.
  • November 12, 2008- autobiographies completed.
  • October 30, 2008- second homestudy meeting.
  • October 22, 2008- received formal application from A.I.A.A.
  • October 14, 2008- first homestudy meeting.
  • October 1, 2008- submitted pre-application to Americans for International Adoption and Aid
  • September 25, 2008- submitted application packet to Adoption Advocates, Inc.
  • September 18, 2008- first meeting with social worker (J.D.)
  • August 2008- decided to adopt

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